There are many adult dating sites, but let’s be honest: far from all of them are good or at least ok. No customer support, tons of porn bots/sexbots, scammers, website interfaces that look like they haven’t been updated since the 1990s… You’ve got the idea.
The good news is that a few great online dating sites are still focused on casual dating. We tested dozens of them, found the best adult dating sites, and are happy to present them to you.
Top 5 NSFW dating sites & apps
| Rank | Site | Free Link | |
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| #1 | AdultFriendFinder |
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| #2 | AshleyMadison |
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| #3 | BeNaughty |
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| #4 | Flirt |
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| #5 | AskMe4date |
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1. AdultFriendFinder
BEST FOR:
Those searching for an extremely popular naked dating site
FEATURES WE LIKED:
Mobile app, Nude Cam chat, perfect Sex Community (blogs, advice, information)
OUR EXPERTS SAY:
Adult Friend Finder is probably the first platform that comes to mind when one thinks of casual sexual encounters, and there are a lot of good reasons for that. It’s a very popular, old adult-oriented hookup app with a webcam service, sex chatrooms, and an affordable Gold membership ($20-$40 per month).
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AdultFriendFinder
Gender ratio:
35%
65%
Visits/Month:
62.4M
Key takeaways
- Mobile app for those who prefer finding a hookup on the go
- You can watch videos uploaded by other users for free!
- A very popular online dating site with more than 80,000,000 users and 43,000,000 monthly visits
Why did we choose it?
Adult Friend Finder is the oldest hookup site on this list—it was created in 1997, so it has no competitors in this issue. This dating platform is also extremely popular: tens of millions of men and women visit this site every month, searching for a one-night stand. The profile quality isn’t the best here, but it doesn’t really matter when you have that many fish in the sea, right? It’s impossible to chat for free on AFF—you’ll need to purchase a premium membership in order to get unlimited access to all members, watch live streams, and view full profiles. Free members, in turn, can use search filters, send “likes”, and join blogs.
Features we liked:
- Very convenient chat rooms with millions of like-minded people
- A lot of detailed profiles with both photos and videos; you can watch videos for free
- Sex Academy with really good videos (available for premium users only)
- Not only for young people searching for a hookup—here, you’ll find a lot of people searching for a third in a threesome, lots of swingers, many mature women and men, etc.
2. Ashley Madison
BEST FOR:
Those searching for a very popular adult dating site with a lot of premium features
FEATURES WE LIKED:
Priority Man, Travel Man, Stealth feature, virtual gifts, profile boosting
OUR EXPERTS SAY:
Ashley Madison is an incredibly popular dating site for those searching for a one-night stand. It has everything an average user needs: from a convenient live chat to various premium features.
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AshleyMadison
Gender ratio:
57%
43%
Visits/Month:
800K
Key takeaways
- A convenient credit system that allows to control how much a user spends
- A large number of search tools to help you find potential matches based on interpersonal and sexual compatibility
- A massive user base, 7,000,000 monthly visits
Why did we choose it?
Created in 2001, Ashley Madison is one of the oldest adult dating websites right now. You can find millions of casual partners here, but to connect with them, you’ll need to buy credits (however, this platform is free for women). There are three credit packages (from $250 to $490) here. Once you purchase credits, you get access to all those premium tools like priority emails (your emails will always be on top of the person’s inbox) and profile boost.
Most users are from the US and Canada (63% and 9%), and most are men (76%). The most popular age category on the site is 18-34 years old (41%), but there are, for example, 10% of those in their 60s and 70s, which, considering the number of users, is quite a lot. This site is not only about casual encounters; there are lots of people looking for other things on AshleyMadison.
Features we liked:
- Mobile app for both Android and iOS smartphones
- A lot of safety measures were implemented after the infamous 2015 data breach
- Priority Man: if you purchase this feature, your profile will be ranked higher in search results
- Virtual gifts and winks
3. BeNaughty
BEST FOR:
Those who want to fulfill their sexual needs and find a potential partner who would be interested in real sex
FEATURES WE LIKED:
Location-based search, convenient live chats, unread messages are deleted in 24 hours
OUR EXPERTS SAY:
BeNaughty is another old and very popular online dating site for those interested in erotic encounters. The registration is very fast here, the website is convenient and easy to use, and there are millions of users interested in a no strings attached relationship on BeNaughty.
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BeNaughty
Gender ratio:
44%
56%
Visits/Month:
5.8M
Key takeaways
- Email verification and strict photo verification
- Profile boosting for premium users
- A very large dating pool (7,400,000 monthly visits)
Why did we choose it?
BeNaughty is a pretty old dating app (created in 2003) for those interested in NSA relationships and casual sex. One of the best things about BENaughty is its reputation. Thus, it has 3.3 stars out of 5 on Sitejabber, and it’s an incredibly good result for a casual online dating site—in this industry, having a better rating is almost impossible. This hookup site has a good matchmaking system, photo verification service, a lot of detailed profiles, and profile videos (some of them are very impressive).
Features we liked:
- Mobile app (both for Android and iOS platforms) for online daters who prefer mobile dating
- Full Safe Mode: if you don’t want anyone to be able to send a message to you, you can turn this mode on. After that, only verified users will be able to write you
- Swiping the “Cute or Not” game—you swipe the members, and you can start chatting if you match. Yes, just like in another popular app
- Customer support is available 24/7
4. Flirt
BEST FOR:
Those searching for a dating app
FEATURES WE LIKED:
Trial period, photo/video exchange, extended search filters, sending winks
OUR EXPERTS SAY:
Flirt.com is a paid dating site with only a few free features (but it’s free for women). You don’t need to pay a lot right away, though—it’s possible to test this site for free. Most users here are searching for a one-night stand, and most members are in their 20s and early 30s.
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Flirt
Gender ratio:
46%
54%
Visits/Month:
5.7M
Key takeaways
- Moderators and customer support specialists block scammers and fake accounts quite fast
- No mobile app, but the mobile version of the dating site is convenient
- A 3-day premium membership for only $3—perfect for testing all the premium features of the site (only for the first purchase)
Why did we choose it?
Flirt.com is one of the most popular sites for sexual encounters, with more than 4,000,000 monthly visits. It’s also the oldest hookup site—Flirt.com was created in 1995 (it was relaunched 2 years later). Unlike all the other sites on this list, the main audience of Flirt.com is not based in the US—only 22% of the visitors are from the United States (15% are from Australia, 12% from the UK, 11% from Canada).
Of course, it’s not a perfect dating site. For example, not all the profiles are real here, but let’s be fair: you can’t find a one-night stand dating site with 100% real and verified users. The number of fake profiles is quite low, though, and as we already mentioned, the moderators of this dating site know their stuff. Most profiles on Flirt are quite detailed, with a lot of information such as eye color, tattoos, weight, height, body type, etc.—perfect for a website focused on physical attraction.
Features we liked:
- Free for women; men can enjoy a 3-day trial period for $3
- If a suspicious profile sends you private messages, you’ll see a special anti-scam notification
- A matching game that looks like roulette
- There are several free features—for example, you can send a wink to any user even without a paid membership
- Flirtcast: you can send a message to all the matches you have
5. AskMe4date
BEST FOR:
Those searching for a new adult dating site with a modern interface
FEATURES WE LIKED:
Like Gallery, location-based search, free messages to other users
OUR EXPERTS SAY:
AskMe4Date is a new dating site that is not as popular as its competitors yet. However, it has a lot of advantages, and we believe you can’t miss it if you’re really interested in casual sex. The site is not free to use, but there’s a 3-day trial, which costs only $3.
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AskMe4date
Gender ratio:
46%
54%
Visits/Month:
846.4K
Key takeaways
- You can start chatting for free on AskMe4Date
- Extra support is available 24/7 (still only for premium users)
- A nice and smooth mobile version of the site
Why did we choose it?
AskMe4Date is a quite popular dating service for sexual encounters, with most users from the US (43%), Canada (14%), and Brazil (8%). We don’t want to call it “very popular” because it has 900,000 monthly visits, and there are many more popular nude dating sites. However, the explanation is simple: AskMe4Date is a relatively new platform created in 2016, so the others on this list have at least a 13-year benefit! Still, AskMe4Date performs quite well: the interface of the site is very modern and simple, the profiles are attractive and detailed, the search tools are numerous, and the matching system works very well.
Features we liked:
- New users can send 5 messages to different users for free
- The website is 100% free for women
- There are a lot of search tools
- You can like other users and add them to your favorite list
- A lot of appearance parameters for the sake of better matching (from body type and hair color to piercings and tattoos)
Final thoughts and recommendations
“There are lots of naked dating sites, as I’ve said earlier. But only a few of them are worth checking out—and the ones on this page are definitely worth it. All of them (except for Askme4date) have millions of users, all of them are great for casual sexual encounters, and all of them may help you find compatible partners who would meet all your requirements. All of them are also free to sign up—so why wait?“
FAQ
What are NSFW dating sites?
NSFW online dating sites or dating apps with nudes are the platforms where people interested in casual sex, one-night stands, or NSA relationships seek partners. These dating websites are typically focused on this kind of audience only, and it’s almost impossible to find someone for a serious relationship on these platforms.
How do nude dating apps work?
Typically, an adult dating site is either paid for men or is technically free but provides good benefits for premium users. Other than that, such apps look similar to other non-casual online dating platforms: they have several messaging tools, allow exchanging pictures and videos, and have a mobile version/mobile app.
Are naked dating sites safe to use?
The thing with online dating is that even if you choose the best and the most trusted adult dating website, this doesn’t mean you’re 100% safe. It’s still possible to meet a scammer, so you need to be extra careful when someone, for example, asks you for money or personal information. And remember that even if you’re using nude dating apps, you have to be careful with your dating app nudes: crop out your face, hide tattoos, consider your environment, etc.
